Finding self-confidence and a style identity as a fat babe in a world that’s constantly labeling us as ‘before’ pictures can seem to be a near-impossible task. We live in a society that generally glorifies thin body types as perfection, while labeling plus sizers as people who need to be “fixed”. I don’t have a thigh gap; in fact, mine are full of cellulite. My hips are wide, my booty is enormous, I have a belly, my arms are big and I weigh a solid 300lbs, yet people stop me on the street constantly to compliment me on my style. This is how I found the courage to come out from underneath baggy, shapeless clothes and embrace my curves, “flaws” and all.
"My negative perception of my body was harming me more than being 300lbs was. The big problem wasn't with my weight, but with the way I saw myself.
It's so possible to be plus size and have mind-blowing sex. This is how I got over my insecurities and allowed myself to enjoy sex!
How I deal with all the online hate I get as someone with 50k followers on Instagram!